What men do well is infinite attraction, which means men are never satisfied, they always want more.

this is quite different from women -lesbians have no bathhouses, quite disgusted with the "pink" pages which were once part of the main Washington Blade where gays advertized body parts as if they were totally disconnected from their minds.

Indeed they are. As a man, your body parts are entirely separate, and the blood pumping one, is needed by the other, so your penis and your brain cannot operate in unision, but excuslivity.

The sadness comes from the data on how this works out for gays, and lesbians - each lacking the others' predisposition.

You would do well to study these statistics, which explain how dysfunctional both male and female pairing become in terms of life expectancy and depression rates when they lack the other's synergistic skills. The coupling of gays and lesbians is genetically doomed to failure.

However, it can be salvaged if you were to consider the option of compensating for your genetic deficiency. Just as tall person can bow to get into a car, or a fat person can eat less, you could consider the concept of reality instead of denial.